Are there funeral homes that cater specifically to non-religious or secular services?

Yes, and the number is growing. As more families seek services that reflect their personal beliefs or lack thereof, the funeral profession has evolved to meet this need. Many funeral homes now proudly offer non-religious, secular, or humanist ceremonies. It is a shift rooted in respect for diversity and a desire to provide meaningful, authentic experiences for every family.

What does a secular funeral home service look like?

A secular service focuses entirely on the life of the person who has died, without any reference to a higher power or religious doctrine. The tone can vary widely, from a formal celebration of life to an intimate gathering of stories and music.

Common elements include:

A trained celebrant or a family friend who leads the service
Readings of poetry, literature, or personal letters
Musical selections that held meaning for the deceased
Time for attendees to share memories or favorite stories
A photo slideshow or display of personal artifacts
Optional moments of silence or reflection

The goal is to honor the individual authentically, offering comfort to the living through shared remembrance rather than spiritual consolation.

How to find a funeral home that offers secular services

You do not need to settle for a provider who seems confused or uncomfortable with your request. A growing number of funeral homes clearly advertise their openness to non-religious services. Here is how to find one:

1. **Search online** using terms like "secular funeral," "humanist funeral," or "non-religious memorial service" along with your city or region. 2. **Check the funeral home’s website** for language about "personalized services," "celebrant-led services," or "non-denominational options." 3. **Call ahead.** Ask directly: "Do you have experience with services that have no religious content? Can you recommend a celebrant or help us plan a ceremony that reflects our values?" 4. **Ask for recommendations** from local humanist or atheist groups, community centers, or grief support organizations.

Many funeral homes are happy to work with a family’s chosen officiant, whether that is a friend, family member, or a professional secular celebrant.

What if my chosen funeral home has no experience with secular services?

If you find a funeral home you otherwise trust but they lack experience with non-religious services, you can still make it work. Most professionals are trained to facilitate whatever service a family designs. You can:

Bring your own officiant or celebrant.
Provide a detailed outline of the service you want.
Explain that the service should include no prayers, hymns, or religious symbols.
Ask if you can decorate or arrange the space to feel non-sectarian (for example, removing religious artwork or symbols if possible).

Clear, kind communication is usually all it takes. If the funeral home seems unwilling or unable to accommodate your request, it is perfectly acceptable to consider another provider.

Special considerations for cremation and green burial

For many non-religious families, the choice of disposition is also a reflection of their values. Secular services often pair well with:

**Cremation without a formal ceremony**, followed by a private family gathering.
**Green or natural burial**, which focuses on environmental stewardship and simplicity.
**Direct cremation**, where the body is cremated soon after death and a memorial service is held later.

These options are increasingly available at funeral homes that serve a diverse clientele. Be sure to ask about them if they align with your wishes.

The bottom line

Your values deserve respect, even in death. Non-religious and secular funeral services are not only possible, they are increasingly common and deeply meaningful. The right funeral home will listen to your needs, answer your questions without judgment, and help you create a ceremony that celebrates a life on its own terms.

As always, laws, prices, and customs vary by location and faith tradition. We encourage you to confirm specifics with a licensed funeral director or trusted advisor. This article provides general educational content and is not legal, medical, or financial advice.